CULTIVATING FAMILY VALUES: A COMPREHENSIVE STUDY OF THE FAMILY SYSTEMS ENGINEERING (ASSESSMENT TOOL CALLED “OYELA”) APPROACH FOR VALUES REORIENTATION

Abstract

This study explored the transformative potential of the "OYELA" as a tool for assessment in facilitating values reorientation within Nigerian families. The objective of this study is to investigate and provide insights into various aspects of family dynamics, values embraced by couples, the purpose of the OYELA tool in a family setting, the potential of psychometric tests like OYELA to enhance self-awareness regarding missing family values and cultural differences, and the effectiveness of the Family Systems Engineering Approach utilizing OYELA in promoting alignment and harmony within culturally diverse Nigerian families. By addressing these critical questions, the study aims to contribute to the understanding of family values, provide guidance for utilizing the OYELA tool, and shed light on the significance of self-awareness, cultural compatibility, and family systems engineering in fostering positive family dynamics. This study adopts qualitative research approach by selecting sample from 35 couples among couples attending Institute of Family Engineering and Development (IFED) in Lagos for counseling services. The study findings uncover the values embraced by couples and highlights the drawbacks associated with these values, such as communication difficulties, lack of shared family vision, and potential conflicts arising from cultural differences. Also, OYELA framework, in conjunction with assessments, serves as a potent tool for family assessment. It guides families toward wholesome values, strengthened cohesion, and harmonious relationships. This addresses the purpose of OYELA as a tool in a family setting. Furthermore, the findings suggest that the use of psychometric tests, specifically referring to OYELA, helps couples gain self-awareness about missing family values and cultural differences. The implications extend to counselors, mental health practitioners, government authorities, and families, emphasizing the need for tailored counseling interventions, family-focused policies, and the preservation of cultural values. Ultimately, this study advocates for the widespread adoption of the "OYELA" framework as a catalyst for positive change within Nigerian families and society at large.