ASSESSING THE PERCEIVED IMPACT OF COUNSELLING ON CONFLICT RESOLUTION STRATEGIES AMONG MARRIED COUPLES IN ABEOKUTA, NIGERIA

Abstract

This study assessed the perceived impact of counselling on conflict resolution strategies among married couples in Abeokuta, Nigeria. A cross-sectional survey was carried out to collect data on 200 participants (100 married couples) using a valid questionnaire (r = 0.92). Results revealed that the first reason for marital conflict was financial disagreements (M = 3.53, SD =0.74), then poor communication (M = 3.08, SD = 0.93) and interference of extended family (M =3.00, SD = 0.95). Counselling was perceived to help with communication (M = 3.20, SD = 0.87), promote understanding (M = 3.13, SD = 0.90), and present practical conflict resolution (M =3.23, SD = 0.94). Counselling also occurred with a lower level of conflict and more positive partner interaction (both M = 3.25; SDs = 0.89 and 0.83). Nevertheless, rebuilding trust (M = =2.70, SD = 1.01) and regulating emotions (M = 2.85, SD = 1.06) were less ef ective, and the agreement was moderate when it comes to timely dispute resolution (M = 2.85, SD = 1.06) and relationship satisfaction (M = 2.90, SD = 0.94). Counselling awareness and acceptance were moderate, but preference toward it as compared to other methods was rather low (M = 2.70, SD= 0.95). It concluded that counselling is a valuable asset, especially for communication and practical strategies, but advised that the elements of trust-building and emotional regulation be strengthened, and that more couples in Nigeria should adopt and embrace it. These should be enhanced by policy and community outreach.